10 Signs You’re Obsessing About Your Weight
Disordered eating is actually common, and it can be a sign that your focus on weight has become unhealthy.
Why it’s a problem
It turns out that disordered eating really is pervasive. In a survey of more than 4,000 women by researchers out of University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, a whopping 75 percent reported behaviors consistent with eating disorders. Individually, these behaviors aren’t something to be overly concerned about, but when they add up, it becomes a roadblock to healthy living. Ask yourself the right questions to find out if you, too, have gone beyond healthy habits and are obsessing about your weight.
Are you anxious about certain food groups?
Starchy foods like pasta and bread have gotten an unfair bad reputation, which can make people feel uneasy about eating them. Sometimes an ingredient, like fat, causes anxiety, even if it’s used to make healthy foods like olive oil, which is used to saute vegetables.
Have you cut out a whole food group?
If you’re skipping foods and blaming it on an allergy or an ethical reason, but your real motivation is to lose weight, that’s a red flag.
Do you only allow yourself to eat at certain times?
A strict eating schedule might seem like a smart way to provide structure throughout your day, but overdoing it can leave you feeling hungry and deprived—and make you overeat at your next meal. Here are some other sneaky ways you get tricked into overeating.
Do you have a rigid exercise schedule?
Regular physical activity is so important for good mental and physical well-being. But, like most other things in life, it’s important to give yourself flexibility when conflicts come up.
Do you get on the scale constantly?
For some, regularly stepping on the scale helps them stay on track. For others, it can become an obsessive routine and an unrealistic way to monitor small fluctuations in weight that happens every day. Here’s how often you should really weigh yourself.
Are you obsessive about calorie counting?
Tracking calories can be a useful tool to understand which foods are calorie-dense, which ones aren’t, and what calorie range you should be eating. If it becomes overbearing, it’s no longer a healthy strategy. Look out for these other silent signs you could have an eating disorder.
Do you arbitrarily decide when you’re hungry or full?
If it’s just the time of day that prompts you to eat or you stop eating because you’ve hit a certain calorie mark, start thinking more about how your body feels. Pay attention to your hunger and satiety, and rely on those cues to decide when to start and stop eating.